In My Own Words, Lifestyle

I Am A Servivor

I hate the word survivor. It feels like a lie. My past of sexual violence and domestic abuse have not been a secret here, at ...on the B.L., but it's not been something I have highlighted either. No more. I use my past to serve, to create change. I am a servivor.

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11 Reasons I Can’t Give You Autumnal Vibes on Instagram

11 Reasons I Can't Give You Autumnal Vibes on Instagram... Fall is here, but you won't see it on my feed because Houston is as humid as Satan’s crotch after hot yoga.

In My Own Words, Lifestyle

End of An Era

It's an end of an era. With DD 214 in hand, Alex is leaving the Marines to go home for good today. It may not officially be a military love-story, but there's love and it's a story. The Sergeant is done.

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11… Signs I Have A Love-Hate Relationship With Military [Dudes]

It's been six years of being actively military adjacent. I have some opinions and feelings about the whole situation. Love my USMC even when they irritate me. Boy do they irritate me a lot. I'm talking about everything from balls to deployments to family day to the [fucking] VA.

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11… Reasons I Don’t Hate Nicholas Sparks

11... Reasons I Don't Hate Nicholas Sparks. I'm sure he's lovely, but his writing is crap and formulaic. His settings, however, are idyllic. I do love North Carolina, so we at least have one thing in common.