11..., Lifestyle

11…ish Anthems in a Spotify Playlist for 2023

Music is a huge part of my life. So, this year, I made a playlist to keep me in check and also remind me it’s okay to be the bummer that I authentically am. Because I truly would not have a career or passion or drive without the depression, anxiety, abuse, and neurodivergence that make up the trauma responses I call my personality.

In My Own Words, Lifestyle

I Am Not Trauma Bonding

I am not trauma bonding. I will give the rundown of my past to new people in my life because I want them to find out the violence I've endured from me and not a tweet or Instagram post. It feels like the polite thing to do.

Books, Reading Lists

Pride Month May Be Over But Here’s An LGBTQ+ Reading List

Pride may be over, but that doesn't mean we have to stop challenging and educating ourselves. Pride isn't a month, it's an existence for those of us in the LGBTQ+ community.

In My Own Words, Lifestyle

Hey! I’m Queer. Happy Pride!

Hey, y’all. I’m queer. Pansexual to be specific. This isn’t my coming out. I’m fully out of the closet. If I’m being honest, I never had an I’m-not-straight talk with anyone. It’s just been something that has existed as a solid fact in my life for a decade now. My non-heterosexual identity has been talked about for awhile, but as I get older, I’m feeling the need to live more loudly in my queer identity.

Books, Fiction

Paul Takes the Form of A Mortal Girl by Andrea Lawlor

Paul Takes the Form of A Mortal Girl is Andrea Lawlor's debut novel. It is quite the book. I have never read anything like it.