Books, NonFiction

Work Wife by Erica Cerulo and Claire Mazur

Worth a Read Yes
Length 208
Quick Review Work Wife by Erica Cerulo and Claire Mazur explores the unique relationship between female duos as company founders and how these duos are changing the workplace.

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Work Wife by Erica Cerulo and Claire Mazure | Bird Cage Veil

Women and men are different. Whether that’s due to nature, nurture, or a combination is up for debate – and not likely to be figured out any time soon. There is one very evident thing, we work and lead differently. Where men tend to compete and fly solo, women tend to support and congregate. Erica Cerulo and Claire Mazur are cofounders of the company Of a Kind and cowriters of Work Wife inspired by their own work wife relationship.  

Cerulo and Mazur were college friends long before they began their Work Wife journey. After moving to NYC and having individual careers, they decided to mesh their passions into one company: Of a Kind. Their friendship was the foundation of their company, but that doesn’t mean they didn’t face all the hurdles every startup faces. Instead of going it alone, they were able to lean on one another and still do to this day. Work Wife chronicles their journey as cofounders, but it also looks to other iconic female duos leading companies of all sorts. They wanted to highlight there is more than one way of being a duo or even a trio in a leadership position. There is no set way of being successful as a female leader but many.

Work Wife talks about several high profile duos and trios. These women are uber successful in their spheres. If you do any reading about women owned businesses or leadership or friendship, these women will inevitably crop up. I am familiar with all of their names because of this. I think it’s fabulous. Also a little sad that there are so few women in leadership roles, and we have to keep using the same women on repeat. It just proves we can do it, and there is a need for more of us. Obviously.  

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Work Wife by Erica Cerulo and Claire Mazur

Cerulo and Mazur approach Work Wife with humor and friendship. There is a ton of great information, but you can sense their relationship and sense of fun coming through in their words. There is a great amount of admiration for each other. I love the sense of collaboration. There is very little ego; though, they do tackle some of the issue that come with the money and percentage side of things – not so cheery and rainbows. One of the biggest takeaways from Work Wife, which transcends business relationships: How partners talk in meetings is an indicator of their relationship and the health of the business. Are they competing? Or are they supporting, listening, and building off one another. This is such an important thing to take into life and other relationships. You can even see this in how they write the book. They speak in the third person “Claire…” or “Erica…” and then switches back to “we,” which is the guiding force behind the book. They are a united force. Other important topics they touch on for women: how men and women deal with money differently, motherhood, communication, regular meetings with a coach, how things tend to come out in the wash.

The writing seems very them. I don’t know them, but it would be hard to make up that playfulness. They write using the acronyms they undoubtedly use in day to day life. In partnership, it’s important to have a short hand. One thing I found a little redundant was the constant reminder of who each woman was. The other duos and trios of female partnerships are mentioned so consistently, it is hard to forget who they are. I do love that they included a profile and portrait of the duos at the very beginning of the book. I like having faces to go with names.  

I want to end on this quote: “Female hysteria may no longer be recognized as a medical condition, but the stereotype – and the reliance on it as a tool to silence and discredit women – persists. Having someone to validate perceptions help eradicate the self-doubt that can ratte even the most confident among us.” It’s a central theme in Work Wife and life. As a woman there is always the fight against centuries and milleniums of oppression and stereotype. It’s been a long battle, but I think we’re starting to make some head way, in great part to the work and openness of women like Erica Cerulo and Claire Mazur.

Memorable Quotes
“At its core, our friendship was built for two.”
“Following your gut is the one hard-and-fast rule of forging a work-wife partnership.”

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Title: Work Wife; The Power of Female Friendship to Drive Successful Businesses
Authors: Erica Cerulo and Claire Mazur
Publisher: Ballantine Books
Copyright: 2019
ISBN: 9781524796778

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Blog + Dog

2019! Off We Go

Here is a series of Beau pictures. They’re all perfect and very much us.
Enjoy Beau’s stream of consciousness.

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The wretched hat is placed upon the head.
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No. Thank you. Stop. I don’t like it.
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Oh! Treats. I’ll sniff.
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I said, “I. Don’t. Like.”
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I don’t like the rain. I don’t like the hat. The treats are hardly worth this.
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Anytime now. We can take the picture.
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Food?
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This is not worth it.
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Is this a good enough pose? I look stupid. Is my expression conveying that?
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Why did the dog cross the road? To get away from you.
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Won’t you leave me along, devil woman?!?
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You. This. Is. Exhausting.
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I am being followed.
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There. We look good. Here’s my sweater | My hat/leg warmers | Mom’s hat | Mom’s Sweater | Mom’s scarf | Mom’s jeans | Mom’s boots | I’m done.

 

Beau and I wish you a Happy New Year!!! I can’t believe it’s 2019 already. Holy wowza!

We spent our New Year’s Eve with family in the Chicago area. A very low key night surrounded by the people we love most. My 63 pound dog was miniaturized by her 170-ish pound Great Dane cousin, Dexter. They snuggled on the couch along with a tiny, old girl, Ana, and three cats. It’s a big couch, but four people, three dogs (totalling 200+ pounds), and three cats is cozy. We celebrated with food and an Avengers movie marathon. We know how to party hard.

We said our goodbyes to family and friends in Chicago yesterday. My grandparents live directly on the way from Chicago to Texas, so we stopped in for lunch. Then, we were convinced to stay for a few days. Working from home, I can do this.

I visit my grandparents in Hot Springs Village, Arkansas often. I haven’t been since the end of May. One of the first things Grammy said when I walked in the door, “I was wondering what happened! You’ve been gone sooooo long.” For awhile, I was here almost every month. After the I love you and I missed you’s were exchanged. “You’re staying the night.” Then my grandpa, aka Poppy Walt, wanted to take us out to dinner. And Grammy said, “No, they’re staying a few days. She has nowhere to be.” I guess I’m staying for a few days. Not that I or Beau are complaining. They live in a gated golfing community, and their backyard overlooks a fairway, a lake, and some mountains. REAL shit hole, I tell you.

Since we drove over night, Beau was cozy in her backseat blanket cuddle puddle for nine and a half hours. When we arrived, she was so happy; she loves it here. There is so much space to run around in their woodsy backyard, and the big house has lots of sniffs to find. The rain dampened her high spirits, but life isn’t perfect.

I couldn’t resist taking these cute pictures. I found her sweater, hat, and leg warmers at Target. She HATES the hat. I won’t lie: she is not a fan. At least, she hasn’t transferred her hat hatred to me as the hat-putter-onner. She really likes the sweater though. It’s warm and snug. The leg warmers helped her bear the rain, surprisingly. I’m still in a festive holiday mood, so I donned one of my go-to red sweaters, my favorite red scarf (budget version here), and a white hat. I also live in my grey Aldo boots, and these jeans. Seriously, these boots are the best. For otk boots, these are an incredible deal! Beau is for sure the cuter of the two. Although, she got her beauty sleep… I drove through the night.

Not a bad start to 2019. Rang in the New Year together in Chicago. Day 2 and 3 will be in Arkansas. Day 4 will be home to Houston. Ruff life. We’ll see where else 2019 takes us on our travels!!!

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xoxo,
Beau. Mom Sucks.

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I’m going inside. This was not my favorite.